Don’t Crowdfund Your Family’s Future
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On May 4, Pope Francis signed a decree recognizing the heroic virtue of Vietnamese Cardinal François-Xavier Nguyen Van Thuân and declaring him “Venerable” — a stage toward sainthood.
Born April 17, 1928, in Hue, Vietnam, Thuân was raised in a strong Catholic family with many ancestors who died for the faith during persecutions between 1698 and 1885. He was ordained a priest in 1953, and Pope Paul VI appointed him bishop of Nha Trang 14 years later.
Bishop Thuân later became archbishop of Saigon in 1975. In part because his uncle, Ngo Dinh Diem, who was assassinated in 1963, had been the first president of the Republic of South Vietnam, Vietnam’s communist government opposed the appointment. Within months, the archbishop was arrested and sent to a reeducation camp. He was imprisoned for 13 years, including nine years in solitary confinement.
The faithful sent him a small bottle of wine — under the guise of “medicine for stomach aches” — and he was able to celebrate the Eucharist with other prisoners. Archbishop Thuân later recounted that his palm became an altar each day, and “three drops of wine and a drop of water” became “the medicine of immortality.”
He added: “At night, the prisoners would take turns for adoration. With his silent presence, the eucharistic Jesus helped us in unimaginable ways. Many Christians returned to a fervent faith-life…. Even Buddhists and other non-Christians came to the faith. The strength of Jesus’ love was irresistible.”
Archbishop Thuân was released from prison in 1988 and then exiled from Vietnam in 1991. Pope John Paul II named him president of the Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace in 1998 and created him a cardinal in 2001. He died of cancer Sept. 16, 2002.
In honor of Venerable Cardinal Nguyen Van Thuân’s indomitable faith, Columbia presents here a never before published account by Mr. Paul Nguyen Hoai Duc, a former high-ranking communist officer who studied French with Cardinal Thuân during his house arrest. The reflection, written around the year 2000, was shared by Elizabeth Wong, the late cardinal’s sister, and is published here with permission.
At the time, Archbishop Thuân was under house arrest. By then, I had been promoted to senior rank. When my boss asked if I had any special request, I told him that I wished to perfect my verbal French with the archbishop. I was allowed to spend two days a week with Thuân. Prior to that first meeting, I was formally cautioned not to let myself be brainwashed by him.
So, early in 1987, I went to see him. The building where he was held was two-storeyed, of French colonial style. The first floor was reserved for the guards assigned to his watch. The second floor had two rooms: one was for him, and the other, larger room was furnished with a table and chairs for high level officials whenever they came for interrogations.
From the very first moment we met, I immediately felt a special closeness with him, and for his part, he seemed happy to have someone to chat with.
To combat loneliness during all that time, he wrote many books, including a lexicon in eight languages.
One day, after studying with him for a while, I said, “Mr. Thuân, I read the Catholic Bible, along with many other books on Buddhism. I notice that Buddha speaks in philosophical language, but Jesus, on the other hand, uses very simple words.”
Calmly and slowly he replied, “Buddha is a philosopher. Jesus uses simple language because he is the Creator of the universe. He wants to use simple language for everyone to understand him. He created the universe and has complete understanding of his creation, while Buddha is searching for answers and an understanding of the universe.”
My eyes were opened from that day on, and I no longer needed to ask further.
Archbishop Thuân always exuded sincerity, perseverance and optimism. Most of the time, he sang. He sang while carrying water to his room or working in the garden. He sang the psalms
and loved to tell us stories, religious as well as regular ones. Everyone experienced peace around him. Personally, I felt deeply touched.
After a short period of studies with him, I visited my younger brother’s family. My sister-in-law uttered, “Oh, brother Duc looks like a religious man these days.”
I re-examined myself and wondered, could it be that my way of looking at things, my personal attitude, my whole being, have changed for the better? I have become a better person, and for that I would have to thank Archbishop Thuân.
IT’S BEEN MORE than 10 years now since the day I had the good fortune to meet Archbishop F.X. Nguyen Van Thuân.
A philosopher once wrote, “A rock, if placed at the right spot, could change the course of the river.”
Archbishop Thuân was the rock that changed the course of my life, from mundane to one with faith in God. More to the point, I continue to regard my encounter with Archbishop Thuân as the most momentous event in my life.
He was the most loving, intelligent, disciplined person that I have ever met. He was in my life the potent grain of yeast that gave rise to a deep faith. To this day, I am still struggling with many challenges ahead of me, but I no longer doubt: God is my great strength.
As a student graduating in 1979, I specialized in counterinsurgency, a division of the Ministry of Internal Affairs in Vietnam. At the beginning, I was assigned to the Citizens Department, and from there, I was transferred to Religious Affairs.
Once I landed my new post, I read and heard many good things about Archbishop Thuân, namely that he was very talented and spoke eight languages. He was loving to everyone around, and despite being in captivity, he always displayed hope and serenity. I examined his file and learned that he was the founder of the lay movement HOPE and that Ngo Dinh Diem was his uncle.
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A new phenomenon is sweeping the internet: crowdfunding. The trend may have its roots in groups generating funds for a common cause through a print or news campaign, but modern-day crowdfunding gained traction, allowing anyone to finance a cause through the web or social media.
Nowadays, crowdfunding is increasingly being used to raise funds for grieving families. Chances are you’ve seen this more than once. Someone passes away, and within a day or two a representative from the family opens a crowdfunding page to raise money to pay for funeral expenses and medical bills.
Without question, crowdfunding is a great way to harness the power of the internet for charitable ends, but it is often insufficient.
Recent studies show that the average crowdfunding memorial page raises $2,000-$2,200 — far below the average cost of funeral services.1 Grieving families are left to deal with the shortfall as well as the additional stress of soliciting donations, figuring out how to access the money and calculating platform fees.
September is designated as Life Insurance Awareness Month. It’s a great opportunity for you to evaluate your life insurance coverage and make sure your family’s future will not be left up to a crowdfunding page.
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